Personality or Stereotype?

They say that each person has the unique temper and psychological peculiarities. There are four general psychological types of the people: sanguine, choleric, phlegmatic and melancholic.

It is a wide-spread opinion that it is not that easy to change the psychological type. If one is still able to alter his of her traces of character the basic peculiarities and features will remain the same. But I suggest you to imagine a handful of sand. The more grains of sand there is the more significant the pile is. The experience is being accumulated constantly as we have to make a choice almost every minute. The information of our choice is stored in the sphere of subconscious. If a person doesn't see any consistent pattern in his or her actions and thinks of them as of the occasional events the most frequent choice turns into a habit. The more similar action the one performs the more "automatic" his actions get. For example a person may get accustomed to grumble and accuse everyone if something doesn't go in accordance with his plans. This grumbling is accepted by this person as his own habit. "That's the way I am". In that way he is constantly carrying around the growing pile of sand with him. But he piles it up himself.

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Are Love And Compassion Equal For Women?

The dictionaries and reference books provide the different explanations for the words “love” and “sympathy”.But still the most of women make these notions equal in practice. Many modern girls have the boyfriends who are weak and delicate, but they love them more than the courageous and powerful men. Women feel both love and compassion towards losers, nerds and unappreciated geniuses. Actually they really love these fragile men though it seems to contradict the law of evolution.

Some psychologists suppose that this compassionate love is the manifestation of the maternal instinct. The modern women tend to mix up their husbands and their children. In that way they coddle and treat their husbands as they were their children.

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6 Dangerous Questions Never to Ask Your Boyfriend

It often happens that a single question asked by a girls may put an end to the begining relationships. To avoid splitting up with a boyfriend we recommend you to read the list of the most popular stupid question ever asked by women. Remembering that these questions are taboo will help the girls create the impression of a confident lady which would be appreciated by their boyfriends and. So what are the most dangerous questions?

  • Do you love me? Just asking this question causes the disbelief in your trusting his words.The girls pronouncing this dangerous question are implicitly telling that they don’t believe that their boyfriend love them. If a guy doesn’t want to talk about his feelings don’t interrogate him. Men often tend to say about their love acting but not speaking.

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